On Getting Old

At what age is one considered a senior citizen? According to AARP, apparently the age is 50. For those younger than 50, you will get a rude awakening when you turn 50. In your mail, on your birthday or maybe a day later, you will get a packet from AARP asking you to join. Some restaurants have an ‘over 55’ menu. And there are numerous ‘over 55’ communities as well. The National Park Service says 62 is the magic age. In August of 2017, the lifetime Senior Pass went from $10 to $80 for U.S. residents over the age of 62. Of course, Medicare says it’s 65, while Social Security says you begin being a senior at 62.

I googled ‘At what age is a person considered a senior citizen?’ Here’s the response.

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Some dictionaries define “senior citizen” as a person over the age of 65. In everyday speech, the term is often shortened to “senior.” In legislation, the term applies to the age at which pensions, social security or medical benefits for the elderly become available.

Ok, that ‘elderly’ word bothers me a bit. I may be approaching the last age I can find for senior citizenry, but doggone it, I’m not elderly!

I am 62 years old. I have never minded telling my age and found it odd when people do. I would much rather say I’m 62 and take the chance that people will think I look 55 than lie and say I’m 50 and people think I look 55!

And that’s another thing. I still care what people think about me. It doesn’t rule or ruin my life, but I still care. I always thought you lose that as you age—the giving a flip about what people think. I’ve read on Facebook several people saying something to that effect. Maybe I still have some aging to do!

Oh, but I DO notice the aging in other ways.
Old people always talk about how fast time goes. And wow, am I there! I look at young mothers, struggling with their children. Many times, I go to them and tell them they will be amazed, when they get to my side of motherhood, just how fast their little ones grow up. I love my life now, but I get a lot of joy remembering my boys when they were little. I adored being a mother! Now, I look forward to being a grandmother.

And oh, what getting old has done to this body of mine! At any given time, I could (I try not to, by the way!) tell you what hurts beginning from my neck
—sometimes my head—down to my toes, stopping MANY times in between. My joints sound like I need a lube job and my eyesight is failing. I have reading glasses all over the house so they are always nearby.

And losing weight. I wish I did not (or should not) care about that, but I do, and I should. It’s hard. A lot harder than when I was young. I remember when my stomach was a little poochy, I could skip a supper and the next morning, have a very flat stomach. Now, if I forget to eat a meal, I am convinced I am coming down with something! One change in that regard is I really do care about the health benefits of losing weight now. But the vanity thing still creeps in occasionally.

 

And my memory! I’ve always been a note taker, but now it’s essential. I remember my former mother-in-law saying that she kept a notepad by her chair. She said, before she stood, she would jot down the reason she was getting up just in case she forgot during the process of getting up! I haven’t gotten THAT bad, thank the Good Lord.
But I’m not elderly. Yet.

 

Senior Citizens

Have you spent much time around old people?  I absolutely love being with the elderly.  They have so much wisdom and insights into this world of ours.  I most enjoy being with those with a great sense of humor.  I think I inherited my love of laughter from my mom.  She is 84 years old, and is in relatively good shape.  I talk to her every day on the phone, and we usually spend most of the conversation laughing about one thing or another.  I remember my grandmother and her sisters giving my great-grandmother, Nana, a yearly birthday party starting at her 80th.  Every year, I would ask why, and every year I got the same reply.  “Well Honey, you never know when it will be her last.”  She lived to be 96 years old.  Nana had such interesting stories to tell.  Her real name was Mable, and she wasn’t thrilled when I named my Basset Hound puppy Mable.  She also took advantage of her age.  She was stubborn and pretty much got her way almost all of the time.

 
Remember when I said that Krystal was almost deaf?  Last night, something scraped the wall in the apartment next door.  It wasn’t too loud, just different.  Well Krystal sat straight up, ears alert, trying to figure out what the sound was.  I immediately thought ‘Nana‘!  Could it be that, in her old age, she is choosing not to hear me?!  She is stubborn, and she does get her own way most of the time.  I should have named her Mable!

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